"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She thinks that I stalked her?

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contacted via facebook: She stated, I saw you roll by my house yesterday, Why you stalking me?
give it up ;-(
She lives on a busy street, I was shopping on the same street she lives and took that street on my way home. She was driving perpendicular to the street. Live approximately 10 minutes away from her. What should I say to her? She probably thinks I was going out of my way to take her street. lie, tell some story, truth?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why would you feel the need to explain anything? Stuff like that is best ignored. Delete her from your friends, block her from contacting you, and move on. You stand to gain nothing by explaining yourself or apologizing.
 
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She is making accusations, but why would it matter to you? They are obviously unfounded. If someone did that to me, I'd cut them off completely and look for someone less complicated - no questions asked, no explanations needed.
 
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lol reminds me of someone(me).
went to the bus stop everyday for one week to make business with some pals and a girl from my class was also there.
result: 1 weekend later im ''not giving her enough space'':crackup:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Jumpman23 said:
contacted via facebook: She stated, I saw you roll by my house yesterday, Why you stalking me?
give it up ;-(
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This is why i hate texting, IMs, email, etc. Sarcasm and jokes can be misinterpreted all too easily. Since you didn't mention your relationship with this girl, I would read this as playful negging. Why? The winking asciii at the end and the fact that she ASKED Why you were (ie. Do you like me?).
She knows you weren't stalking her.... but.... SHE noticed you and took the time to contact you!

I would play this as a joke and tease her back....

If she really thinks you were stalking her, she will reply with... "Leave me alone", or won't respond at all.
 
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Rook said:
This is why i hate texting, IMs, email, etc. Sarcasm and jokes can be misinterpreted all too easily. Since you didn't mention your relationship with this girl, I would read this as playful negging. Why? The winking asciii at the end and the fact that she ASKED Why you were (ie. Do you like me?).
She knows you weren't stalking her.... but.... SHE noticed you and took the time to contact you!

I would play this as a joke and tease her back....

If she really thinks you were stalking her, she will reply with... "Leave me alone", or won't respond at all.
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you know what? I think you're right Rook. If a girl really thought you were stalking her she would make it clear. This message seems like a neg on you. Just joke around back like Rook said. If she's not receptive then I guess she really did want you to give up.:crackup:
 
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Wouldn't you like to know? ;)
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Rook said:
This is why i hate texting, IMs, email, etc. Sarcasm and jokes can be misinterpreted all too easily. Since you didn't mention your relationship with this girl, I would read this as playful negging. Why? The winking asciii at the end and the fact that she ASKED Why you were (ie. Do you like me?).
She knows you weren't stalking her.... but.... SHE noticed you and took the time to contact you!

I would play this as a joke and tease her back....

If she really thinks you were stalking her, she will reply with... "Leave me alone", or won't respond at all.
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I think that Rook is right, that she might be teasing. Like Rook said, reply to her, teasingly, and see how she responds. If, like Rook said, says "Leave me alone!", then you know she doesn't like you, and you haven't lost anything. So, go for it, dude!

From Lil' Ben :cheer:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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****y and Funny is my advice
Something along the lines of:

Are you really that needy that you have to accuse people of stalking you? Or am I just THAT good looking? ( Only in Person and only if you can *handle* it.)

I Was stalking you? I was pretty sure you watched me all the time when i was shopping ( I would prefer this one )
 
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"Stalking you? Sorry babe, I was just trying to beat the paparazzi." Said very sarcastically. Freakin' attention *****s think the whole universe revolves around them...
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Actually a very good one it shows that you are masculine but on the other side you also put her on a podest dont you?
I dont know if by saying something like this, even in a veeeery sarcastic tone, you make her the desirable prize when in fact you should be
 
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its a **** test...if you look like you are worrying about what she thinks of you, she has discoveredthat you still have an afc side, though if you laugh at her show that you dont care etc then you pass the test
 
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Is she joking? If you make something serious out of it, then you've only confirmed what she's thinking.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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yo jumpman - immediately forget about this wacky basket case and move on...she ain't worth it. She sounds like she is trouble anyway.
 
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tell her not to think of herself as that important ;)
 
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more details like how you know her ect ect

i would just keep talking to her and completely ignore that statment though
 
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just ignore it. don't reply. don't delete. don't do anything. just ignore. unaffected.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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