"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She thinks I have nobody else.

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Industry

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I've been dating a girl and she has the impression that she's the only girl in my life. How can I change this? Should I just tell her I'm going on dates (because I am)? She has no urgency to hang out because she thinks this way. What should I do DJs?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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two cases are possible:
1-she's right and she's currently the only girl in your life. the fact that you care about this opinion of hers and magnify it may mean this is the case.
2- she has emotional issues. maybe YOU are the only guy in her life. know what I mean?

in either case she should not be your first priority.
 
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Don't react to it. Should you have other girls in your life it shouldn't phase you, there's always others. Be busy once in awhile, cancel a date here or there because you have plans.
 
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Industry said:
I've been dating a girl and she has the impression that she's the only girl in my life. How can I change this? Should I just tell her I'm going on dates (because I am)? She has no urgency to hang out because she thinks this way. What should I do DJs?
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Stop treating her as if she was the only girl in your life.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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