"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

She thinks I have nobody else.

I

Industry

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 25, 2003
Messages
468
Reaction score
1
Location
The OC
I've been dating a girl and she has the impression that she's the only girl in my life. How can I change this? Should I just tell her I'm going on dates (because I am)? She has no urgency to hang out because she thinks this way. What should I do DJs?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

L

lyamdb

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 24, 2007
Messages
73
Reaction score
1
two cases are possible:
1-she's right and she's currently the only girl in your life. the fact that you care about this opinion of hers and magnify it may mean this is the case.
2- she has emotional issues. maybe YOU are the only guy in her life. know what I mean?

in either case she should not be your first priority.
 
H

Heart Break Kid

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 17, 2006
Messages
714
Reaction score
5
Location
In hell. I'm Satan's lover.
Don't react to it. Should you have other girls in your life it shouldn't phase you, there's always others. Be busy once in awhile, cancel a date here or there because you have plans.
 
F

Francisco d'Anconia

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2003
Messages
15,481
Reaction score
65
Location
Galt's Gulch
Industry said:
I've been dating a girl and she has the impression that she's the only girl in my life. How can I change this? Should I just tell her I'm going on dates (because I am)? She has no urgency to hang out because she thinks this way. What should I do DJs?
Click to expand...
Stop treating her as if she was the only girl in your life.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top