"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She texts first, you text back? or call back?

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long story short.

Single Mom 26yrs old from work who is a mother of 3 texted me (really high interest) she got my number somehow. (played my game right with her)

She quits and finds a new job.

1 week after qutting. I called her to monday to schedule from saturday movie date. Gave her till wednesday to call back and she didnt call or text to inform me that she can't make it.

4 weeks later (today) i get a text from her saying "hi verysuave, how are you doing?"

soo..

Should I call her back or just text her back.

and

should I

1. bust her for the disrepect
2. reply in a d1ck way

what would you do if a woman disrepected you?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why not just respond with a simple "i'm doing great and you?"

Making any reference to why she took so long to get back to you is just showing her that you have been waiting for her message (which I hope you haven't been, come on).

Ontop of that replying in a "d1ck way" will successfully land you no pu$$y. What good does this do for you? You get a "high" for a minute or so just from telling her off? Please, we are not women.

Remember, you're a man who doesn't rely on women messaging you and lives his life the way he wants, when he wants it. He doesn't require women, but if they choose to come to him, he will take them.
 
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WC2 said:
Why not just respond with a simple "i'm doing great and you?"

Making any reference to why she took so long to get back to you is just showing her that you have been waiting for her message (which I hope you haven't been, come on).

Ontop of that replying in a "d1ck way" will successfully land you no pu$$y. What good does this do for you? You get a "high" for a minute or so just from telling her off? Please, we are not women.

Remember, you're a man who doesn't rely on women messaging you and lives his life the way he wants, when he wants it. He doesn't require women, but if they choose to come to him, he will take them.
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true true about making references. tnx
 
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It took her 4 weeks to respond?!? A single mom with 3 kids? I wouldn't go for that. Sorry to make this comment, but I would not go for single moms unless you're a single parent yourself I suppose.
 
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I don't see any good reason to pursue her other than she is a woman.
Do you really want to be stuck with 3 lil f.uckers running around while you're trying to watch the movie?
Just because she showed interest doesn't mean you have to go after her. Think about it, have you really interacted long enough with her so that YOU can feel she has something to offer you that most other females can't?
If you are a low self esteem guy who's only qualities he seeks in a woman is tits and ass then go ahead and contact her. At least remember that the laid back approach is always the best one. So I would txt instead of call.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ey, tnx for the advice. Im gona keep it cool. I just replied back with

"doing good. hows life and what r u wearing?"

she replies back later.


Ive never dealt with single women around this age who have 3 kids. Are they gamed differently than the single 18-23 year olds?
 
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why would you respond with " and what are you wearing?" that just comes off as creepy and immature
 
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r0cky said:
I don't see any good reason to pursue her other than she is a woman.
Do you really want to be stuck with 3 lil f.uckers running around while you're trying to watch the movie?
Just because she showed interest doesn't mean you have to go after her. Think about it, have you really interacted long enough with her so that YOU can feel she has something to offer you that most other females can't?
If you are a low self esteem guy who's only qualities he seeks in a woman is tits and ass then go ahead and contact her. At least remember that the laid back approach is always the best one. So I would txt instead of call.
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Good advice here. Except if you DO decide she is worth going after, I would call and not text. Still keep it laid back and casual, but texting before you even get to know a chick or have been on a first date is in my opinion a pu--- way of making contact. Sack up and dial.
 
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verysuave said:
long story short.

Single Mom 26yrs old from work who is a mother of 3 texted me (really high interest) she got my number somehow. (played my game right with her)
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1. bust her for the disrepect
2. reply in a d1ck way

what would you do if a woman disrepected you?
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Don't date single mothers, you can't have anything good come of it. Drop the b1tch NOW.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Rhoto said:
Don't date single mothers, you can't have anything good come of it. Drop the b1tch NOW.
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I agree. I dated a single mom. She was good at first...then the emotional problems came out. Then she became very negative and needy. Hell, I'm seeing her right now. I'm just trying to come up with the time to just drop her. I dont feel right telling her over the phone. Our next "meeting" will be a hard one.
 
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I agree. I dated a single mom. She was good at first...then the emotional problems came out. Then she became very negative and needy. Hell, I'm seeing her right now. I'm just trying to come up with the time to just drop her. I dont feel right telling her over the phone. Our next "meeting" will be a hard one.
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so i replied with "im good. Hows life and what r u wearing"

she replies back with

"im in a bathing suit in a tub with my kids, other than that im ok"

i havent said anything since yesterday. I don't really care much about her. If she wants it, then come get it
 
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baurman said:
why would you respond with " and what are you wearing?" that just comes off as creepy and immature
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it was daytime. Only the ones with the dirty minds think of it as creepy
 
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verysuave said:
long story short.

Single Mom 26yrs old from work who is a mother of 3 texted me (really high interest) she got my number somehow. (played my game right with her)

Mother of 3 at 26? Wow, she cranks them out fast. $100 they are not with the same guy.

She quits and finds a new job.

1 week after qutting. I called her to monday to schedule from saturday movie date. Gave her till wednesday to call back and she didnt call or text to inform me that she can't make it.

4 weeks later (today) i get a text from her saying "hi verysuave, how are you doing?"
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"I'm doing great. How are you doing?"
 
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why are you interested in a woman with 3 kids? that's too much baggage. buy one get 3 free? am straingtttttt!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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