"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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she text me after a month of no contact

eastside562

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Went out with her 2 times in a month time period. We hardly talk and i havent been able to kiss her so i stopped talking to her and moved on to talk to someone ealse. I didnt initiate nc i just forgot about her. month later she texted me up and wants to meet this weekend. I dont know of we are dayting or not but i did remember she gave an exampke of a friend that annoys her and said if we were friends and you did that it would annoy her.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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devilkingx2

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take a deep breath, you've got another plate to spin
 

Tomo

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She may just be stroking her own ego by seeing if you will jump through hoops to see her again. Don't be surprised if she flakes. If she doesn't but, congratulations - you are now spinning plates and on your way as a DJ.
 

Don-Kong

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If you see her a friend material then be friends, hang out. Her friends may open doors ;-) so this could be a strategy.
If you cant do with the hassle then red-card her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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