"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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she text me after a month of no contact

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eastside562

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Went out with her 2 times in a month time period. We hardly talk and i havent been able to kiss her so i stopped talking to her and moved on to talk to someone ealse. I didnt initiate nc i just forgot about her. month later she texted me up and wants to meet this weekend. I dont know of we are dayting or not but i did remember she gave an exampke of a friend that annoys her and said if we were friends and you did that it would annoy her.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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take a deep breath, you've got another plate to spin
 
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Tomo

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She may just be stroking her own ego by seeing if you will jump through hoops to see her again. Don't be surprised if she flakes. If she doesn't but, congratulations - you are now spinning plates and on your way as a DJ.
 
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If you see her a friend material then be friends, hang out. Her friends may open doors ;-) so this could be a strategy.
If you cant do with the hassle then red-card her.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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