she tells me on phone she's looking for her stocking..?

[drift king]

i'm suppose to meet this facebook chick and she's been away for 2 weeks and been back for nearly 2 weeks now..i called her for the first time yesterday to arrange our meet cos she was ignoring my text arrangements so i had to speak to her to make it more personal..anyway she seemed to be busy so our convo didn't exactly flow the way i wanted it to.. she said she was going out and was looking for her other stocking.

i found this to be quite a turn on for a first convo and i started laughing drawing attention to the fact she was saying the right things to seduce a guy.. my question is.. if she was looking to wear them on her night out does that mean she was out to see a guy and potentially fvck him later?

just seemed inappropriate attire to be wearing on a girls night out.. plus it makes the assumption of our meeting not a date as i hoped..

 

[Bawb14]

Dude why are you over analyzing this **** so much? If she doesn't sound interested in you, why do you care? move on please, and the stocking sounds like some bs to me.... and i dont think it relates to anything.... at all.

 

[eyedea40]

DK, sorry dude you come off very AFC, like bawb14 said move on, keep those plates spinning.

 

[drift king]

i just wanna know if she's indicating if she's seeing a guy that night or not so at least when i do meet her i know the situation of our meeting.

 

[eyedea40]

i just wanna know if she's indicating if she's seeing a guy that night or not so at least when i do meet her i know the situation of our meeting.

Who cares who she is with man, she does not seem intersted. I would just move on to the next plate.

 

[Rounder]

i just wanna know if she's indicating if she's seeing a guy that night or not so at least when i do meet her i know the situation of our meeting.

Ok I'm a newb to this board but I want to take a stab at this.

How does her banging a guy that night change how you're going to talk to her? If she is a good looking single girl she gets attention from men, period.

Even if you get a date with her do you think she is suddenly going to fall in love with you, not get attention and offers from other men and not want to go out with them? She is one of many, what does she have to offer you to make her worthwhile to keep around?

Also - text arrangements for a date? If there is one thing that comes through loud and clear on this board it is to make things personal. Your personal influence should be a part of every interaction with a woman.

And talking to her about "her saying the right things to seduce a man" - you're giving her power over you.

 

[nubian-knight]

lol @ trying to find a stocking being "the right thing to seduce a man"

if a girl told you she had to go find her dirty socks would that seduce you too

fine bad comparison...but the point is the same. over analayzing who cares if shes banging other guys, if shes not banging you why are you even talking to her

 

[amoka]

i'm suppose to meet this facebook chick and she's been away for 2 weeks and been back for nearly 2 weeks now..i called her for the first time yesterday to arrange our meet cos she was ignoring my text arrangements so i had to speak to her to make it more personal..anyway she seemed to be busy so our convo didn't exactly flow the way i wanted it to.. she said she was going out and was looking for her other stocking.

i found this to be quite a turn on for a first convo and i started laughing drawing attention to the fact she was saying the right things to seduce a guy.. my question is.. if she was looking to wear them on her night out does that mean she was out to see a guy and potentially fvck him later?

just seemed inappropriate attire to be wearing on a girls night out.. plus it makes the assumption of our meeting not a date as i hoped..

Alright, if I understand you correctly, you met this girl on facebook. Happened to got her number and text her two weeks after she returned from her two weeks vacation ( leave). She never responded to any of your texts so you decided to call her and lo and behold, she picked up. But somehow, the conversation is not exactly what you'd expect. She began telling you how she is searching for her stockings, and you don't welcome the idea because you suspected her of going out with a guy and possibly fvcking the guy.

Now, lets break it down:
1. I gathered you have never met this girl. You only saw few of her pictures (best case scenario) on facebook. Never talked to her prior to the phone call. You don't know what she does for living.... less you know, she is a stripper or a go go dancer.

Secondly, you must remember that you called her. I hope you did not call her "just to talk." When you call, know the reason why you call. Don't call and expect her to entertain you. If you had called her because you were bored, then you need to go out often and get a life.

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Oh yeah, if you decided to hang up because she said she was looking for her stockings and got you jealous, forget about her. It could be a sh!t test that you FAILED.

 

[decades]

no she was not trying to seduce you when she said she was looking for her other SOCK. :crazy: