"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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she tells me in a drunken state 'he'll be back..'

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the girl im seeing is a flake, but never ever flakes on me, she told me that she made out with 1 guy this semester and that it ended cos she kept flaking on him but then goes on to say 'he'll be back..'

she was in a drunken state at the time and it made me wonder that the fact he walked away cos she cancelled too many times, is she potentially using me to make him jealous so he comes back?

if she isn't, what do i do if he does come back? he has history with her (made out/slept with her i dont know..) how should i be if i start noticing her behaviour changing?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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jesus christ, this guy isn't arnold schwarzenegger coming back to beat your ass, don't worry about it.
 
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you're overthinking its no big deal forget the other guy and what she said or else you will be paranoid as hell.
 
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Just put her on the list of 'girls I bang but won't do anything serious with' and then proceed to hit up more girls whilst sleeping with this one. Problem solved.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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