"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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she tells me in a drunken state 'he'll be back..'

pete101

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the girl im seeing is a flake, but never ever flakes on me, she told me that she made out with 1 guy this semester and that it ended cos she kept flaking on him but then goes on to say 'he'll be back..'

she was in a drunken state at the time and it made me wonder that the fact he walked away cos she cancelled too many times, is she potentially using me to make him jealous so he comes back?

if she isn't, what do i do if he does come back? he has history with her (made out/slept with her i dont know..) how should i be if i start noticing her behaviour changing?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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hamilton

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jesus christ, this guy isn't arnold schwarzenegger coming back to beat your ass, don't worry about it.
 

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you're overthinking its no big deal forget the other guy and what she said or else you will be paranoid as hell.
 

SandHawk

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Just put her on the list of 'girls I bang but won't do anything serious with' and then proceed to hit up more girls whilst sleeping with this one. Problem solved.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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