You need to grab your balls and dicipline your woman.
If she all of a sudden starts kicking the door of your car trying to make a dent are you going to let her do that? or are you going to tell her to stop and never do that again? Of course you're going to stop her duh! The same applies with anything else a woman does wrong to you.
Do you remember the look your dad gave you when you did something wrong when you were a kid? The stare that could cut through a wall. When a woman does something wrong to you that is what you do. Stare her down like you mean it, let her know in an affirmative fashion that you do not want her to do that ever again in your presence. No smiles, no bs, just you setting an expectation of respect towards yourself.
Guys now a days let women walk all over them. They never call them out on their misbehavior, they let themselves get disrespected and all just to be in the presence of a woman.
Women are wicked in their mind games and tests with you. She might not be over her ex or she just might be testing you to see how you react to her talking about her ex. Women like to play games you have to understand this. Don't try to reason with her or use logic because that won't work with women. Put your foot down and let her know you don' want to hear about her ex ever again in your presence and that's it.
For instance, I've had a 9 year long relationship from my 16th till my 25th, in which my ex former a lot of my personality. So yes, I do talk about her every now and then, since she is such a part of who I am.
Why don't you just cut off your balls and hand them over to your ex in a pink purse????
I can imagine it now you getting married one day and talking to your wife about your ex because "she is a part of who you are." You discovering a cure for cancer and thanking your ex because "she is a part of who you are." What kind of effeminate ********** is this???
This forum saddens me sometimes.
