"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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She Stops Doing What I Like

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Short and simple question here.

What is with a woman when she stops doing what you like and she knows you like it.

Like you let her know you enjoy her wearing tight jeans or you enjoy it when she wears her hair a certain way or you like it when she comes over unannounced etc.,

I am sure you get the message but why do they stop after you tell them you like it? Is it a game or what is going on here.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She figures you have terrible taste in fashion.

Or maybe she just got self-concious after you mentioned it.

I don't see enough here to indicate falling interest. Let her worry about fashion. And you should be THANKFUL for the fact that she stopped coming over unnannounced!
 

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Phyzzle said:
.... you should be THANKFUL for the fact that she stopped coming over unnannounced!
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The guy has nothing to loose when his girl comes in unannounce. I bet he even gave her an extral key to his house, to show he loves her. "Hey baby, get this key. Come in whenever you want..."
 

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I guess I shouldn't sweat the small stuff here.

Thanks phyzzle

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Phyzzle said:
She figures you have terrible taste in fashion.

Or maybe she just got self-concious after you mentioned it.

I don't see enough here to indicate falling interest. Let her worry about fashion. And you should be THANKFUL for the fact that she stopped coming over unnannounced!
 

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Hey! Remind her a$$ again - like you mean it. If she don't, then stop seein' her for awhile! And when she wants to come over, remind her to wear her hair like you like it. She should be sayin ok daddy.:yes:

If you gets no respect then you gives no respect! :rockon:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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LOL! I'll have to remember to do that Dapper good one.

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Dapper said:
Hey! Remind her a$$ again - like you mean it. If she don't, then stop seein' her for awhile! And when she wants to come over, remind her to wear her hair like you like it. She should be sayin ok daddy.:yes:

If you gets no respect then you gives no respect! :rockon:
 
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