"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Short and simple question here.

What is with a woman when she stops doing what you like and she knows you like it.

Like you let her know you enjoy her wearing tight jeans or you enjoy it when she wears her hair a certain way or you like it when she comes over unannounced etc.,

I am sure you get the message but why do they stop after you tell them you like it? Is it a game or what is going on here.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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She figures you have terrible taste in fashion.

Or maybe she just got self-concious after you mentioned it.

I don't see enough here to indicate falling interest. Let her worry about fashion. And you should be THANKFUL for the fact that she stopped coming over unnannounced!
 
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Phyzzle said:
.... you should be THANKFUL for the fact that she stopped coming over unnannounced!
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The guy has nothing to loose when his girl comes in unannounce. I bet he even gave her an extral key to his house, to show he loves her. "Hey baby, get this key. Come in whenever you want..."
 
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I guess I shouldn't sweat the small stuff here.

Thanks phyzzle

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Phyzzle said:
She figures you have terrible taste in fashion.

Or maybe she just got self-concious after you mentioned it.

I don't see enough here to indicate falling interest. Let her worry about fashion. And you should be THANKFUL for the fact that she stopped coming over unnannounced!
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Hey! Remind her a$$ again - like you mean it. If she don't, then stop seein' her for awhile! And when she wants to come over, remind her to wear her hair like you like it. She should be sayin ok daddy.:yes:

If you gets no respect then you gives no respect! :rockon:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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LOL! I'll have to remember to do that Dapper good one.

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Hey! Remind her a$$ again - like you mean it. If she don't, then stop seein' her for awhile! And when she wants to come over, remind her to wear her hair like you like it. She should be sayin ok daddy.:yes:

If you gets no respect then you gives no respect! :rockon:
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