"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She Stops Doing What I Like

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Short and simple question here.

What is with a woman when she stops doing what you like and she knows you like it.

Like you let her know you enjoy her wearing tight jeans or you enjoy it when she wears her hair a certain way or you like it when she comes over unannounced etc.,

I am sure you get the message but why do they stop after you tell them you like it? Is it a game or what is going on here.

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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She figures you have terrible taste in fashion.

Or maybe she just got self-concious after you mentioned it.

I don't see enough here to indicate falling interest. Let her worry about fashion. And you should be THANKFUL for the fact that she stopped coming over unnannounced!
 
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Phyzzle said:
.... you should be THANKFUL for the fact that she stopped coming over unnannounced!
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The guy has nothing to loose when his girl comes in unannounce. I bet he even gave her an extral key to his house, to show he loves her. "Hey baby, get this key. Come in whenever you want..."
 
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I guess I shouldn't sweat the small stuff here.

Thanks phyzzle

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Phyzzle said:
She figures you have terrible taste in fashion.

Or maybe she just got self-concious after you mentioned it.

I don't see enough here to indicate falling interest. Let her worry about fashion. And you should be THANKFUL for the fact that she stopped coming over unnannounced!
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Hey! Remind her a$$ again - like you mean it. If she don't, then stop seein' her for awhile! And when she wants to come over, remind her to wear her hair like you like it. She should be sayin ok daddy.:yes:

If you gets no respect then you gives no respect! :rockon:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LOL! I'll have to remember to do that Dapper good one.

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Dapper said:
Hey! Remind her a$$ again - like you mean it. If she don't, then stop seein' her for awhile! And when she wants to come over, remind her to wear her hair like you like it. She should be sayin ok daddy.:yes:

If you gets no respect then you gives no respect! :rockon:
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