"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She stood me up. Next?

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Confirmed a second date with a POF girl yesterday via phone and I know she went out last night to some crazy concert.

Plans were for 2pm today. I called at 1pm (no answer) called once I got there at 2pm (no answer) I left.

Why the hell confirm plans and then stand someone up? Anyway zero tolerance policy for getting stood up correct?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ZERO ZERO ZERO nexttt don't even bother to answer anything from her
 
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tomwesten27 said:
Confirmed a second date with a POF girl yesterday via phone and I know she went out last night to some crazy concert.

Plans were for 2pm today. I called at 1pm (no answer) called once I got there at 2pm (no answer) I left.

Why the hell confirm plans and then stand someone up? Anyway zero tolerance policy for getting stood up correct?
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Next. You did some stuff wrong here though. No weekend day dates for a 2nd date man. Also never call to confirm. Confirm when you call her to ask her out. The good news is you kind of want them to screw up like this early. The sooner you weed the bad ones out the better.
 
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Women who are interested in you won't confuse you. Drop her ass.

Case closed.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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