"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She stood me up. Next?

tomwesten27

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Confirmed a second date with a POF girl yesterday via phone and I know she went out last night to some crazy concert.

Plans were for 2pm today. I called at 1pm (no answer) called once I got there at 2pm (no answer) I left.

Why the hell confirm plans and then stand someone up? Anyway zero tolerance policy for getting stood up correct?
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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ZERO ZERO ZERO nexttt don't even bother to answer anything from her
 

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tomwesten27 said:
Confirmed a second date with a POF girl yesterday via phone and I know she went out last night to some crazy concert.

Plans were for 2pm today. I called at 1pm (no answer) called once I got there at 2pm (no answer) I left.

Why the hell confirm plans and then stand someone up? Anyway zero tolerance policy for getting stood up correct?

Next. You did some stuff wrong here though. No weekend day dates for a 2nd date man. Also never call to confirm. Confirm when you call her to ask her out. The good news is you kind of want them to screw up like this early. The sooner you weed the bad ones out the better.
 

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Women who are interested in you won't confuse you. Drop her ass.

Case closed.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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