"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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she still wants to see me

BlackDragon

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My german gf still wants to see me after her mom told her not to. Her mom told her she should date a reg. white german guy and not me (Black, American, Military) My gf said her dad could be even worse if he found out about us. So I been dating this girl for about 3 months and I really like her. Dont know if i should continue with the relationship and end it now before I get deeper feelings.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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1. How old are you? Can she make her own decisions?
2. Mommy said 'should'. Big difference from must or will.
 

BlackDragon

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ok, we are both 22, and her mom is saying must. Like saying if she me again she would stop giving her money for college and other stuff.
 
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Are you sexing her?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Last Man Standing said:
Are you sexing her?
Do you realize that's ALWAYS the first question you ask, no matter what the problem is?

Yes, he's sexing her. Ever guy on this site is getting sex! Wild, passionate, hot, monkey sex! Every guy but you!.....and maybe Luke Skywalker.:cheer:
 

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It all comes down to the classic "Romeo & Juliet" thing now. Her parents have made you forbidden fruit. She'll want you more than ever.

If you like the girl, then stick with her, see how things play out. If you aren't that hot for her, then say good-bye before she looses her college funding.
 
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