"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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she still wants to see me

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My german gf still wants to see me after her mom told her not to. Her mom told her she should date a reg. white german guy and not me (Black, American, Military) My gf said her dad could be even worse if he found out about us. So I been dating this girl for about 3 months and I really like her. Dont know if i should continue with the relationship and end it now before I get deeper feelings.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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1. How old are you? Can she make her own decisions?
2. Mommy said 'should'. Big difference from must or will.
 
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ok, we are both 22, and her mom is saying must. Like saying if she me again she would stop giving her money for college and other stuff.
 
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Are you sexing her?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Last Man Standing said:
Are you sexing her?
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Do you realize that's ALWAYS the first question you ask, no matter what the problem is?

Yes, he's sexing her. Ever guy on this site is getting sex! Wild, passionate, hot, monkey sex! Every guy but you!.....and maybe Luke Skywalker.:cheer:
 
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It all comes down to the classic "Romeo & Juliet" thing now. Her parents have made you forbidden fruit. She'll want you more than ever.

If you like the girl, then stick with her, see how things play out. If you aren't that hot for her, then say good-bye before she looses her college funding.
 
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