As it seems she is not going to listen to reasoning from your side at this point.
That means you have 1 option left aside from waiting to be cheated on, dread game.
Get into the best shape possible, expand your social circle with attractive women, become mysterious. Not over the year 2023 but NOW!
If she really kicks off her partying, tell her if she stops behaving like a wife, you will stop behaving like a husband. Dont get into any prolonged argument about that, just tell her it is what it is(set the frame). This and the subtile changes you made to yourself, should get her brain rattling.
If she doesnt come around at that point, take away as many levers your wife has on you as possible (social, financial...... depending on family laws on the Phil.).
Indirectly make her know that you would walk away if she was hanging out with other men, cheating, cucking you and set yourself up (mentally, financially etc.) to walk away at any point to radiate it and be convincing.
You are not going to win this by being understanding and compliant to her wishes.
If you wish for peace, prepare for war.