"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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She Showers "Every Other Day"...

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I like the way you handled it but you should have never of felt like you needed to justify yourself for showering twice a day. I shower twice a day and it's not for hygiene it's because I frequent the gym, it actually causes me dry skin on occasion. Every other day for a girl is disgusting in my opinion and it would have turned me off as well, I been through some rough things with girls who didn't care about hygiene. Same girls will spend an hour plus throwing up cover-up and fixing their hair won't even take a shower and to be honest it just sickens me
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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^ Exactly, and I don't ask about it with my girls but it's just assumed that a daily shower is taken
 

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My EX-wife was on a "schedule" too. It's strange, she wouldn't shower after mowing the lawn,raking leaves all day etc. Because it wasn't her day to shower. IF its written in stone,next.
 

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Whatever floats your boat.

Napoleon used to write letters to his wife telling her not to shower for a week before he got home, because he liked it that way.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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f283000

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The only people that shower everyday are Americans. So this pretty much limits your choices of women to 1 nationality. You think they shower everyday in china when most people earn like $1 a day? Europeans are known to be hippi-ish when it comes to personal hygiene. South america? Russia? Let us not even mention africa.

Unless i'm going out I shower once every 2 days but i take 40+ minute showers. I do my best thinking in the shower. :cool:

BTW the real red flag is girls that wear the same clothe everyday or close to it. Now those are guaranteed dirty.
 

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ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
 

mikeyb

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f283000 said:
The only people that shower everyday are Americans. So this pretty much limits your choices of women to 1 nationality. Europeans are known to be hippi-ish when it comes to personal hygiene.
Here's a list of countries I've lived in where the vast majority of the population showers every day: Japan, France, Switzerland, and the UK. You obviously need to widen your horizons my friend.
 
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