"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She Showers "Every Other Day"...

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I like the way you handled it but you should have never of felt like you needed to justify yourself for showering twice a day. I shower twice a day and it's not for hygiene it's because I frequent the gym, it actually causes me dry skin on occasion. Every other day for a girl is disgusting in my opinion and it would have turned me off as well, I been through some rough things with girls who didn't care about hygiene. Same girls will spend an hour plus throwing up cover-up and fixing their hair won't even take a shower and to be honest it just sickens me
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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^ Exactly, and I don't ask about it with my girls but it's just assumed that a daily shower is taken
 

sodbuster

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My EX-wife was on a "schedule" too. It's strange, she wouldn't shower after mowing the lawn,raking leaves all day etc. Because it wasn't her day to shower. IF its written in stone,next.
 

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Whatever floats your boat.

Napoleon used to write letters to his wife telling her not to shower for a week before he got home, because he liked it that way.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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f283000

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The only people that shower everyday are Americans. So this pretty much limits your choices of women to 1 nationality. You think they shower everyday in china when most people earn like $1 a day? Europeans are known to be hippi-ish when it comes to personal hygiene. South america? Russia? Let us not even mention africa.

Unless i'm going out I shower once every 2 days but i take 40+ minute showers. I do my best thinking in the shower. :cool:

BTW the real red flag is girls that wear the same clothe everyday or close to it. Now those are guaranteed dirty.
 

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ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
 

mikeyb

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f283000 said:
The only people that shower everyday are Americans. So this pretty much limits your choices of women to 1 nationality. Europeans are known to be hippi-ish when it comes to personal hygiene.
Here's a list of countries I've lived in where the vast majority of the population showers every day: Japan, France, Switzerland, and the UK. You obviously need to widen your horizons my friend.
 
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