"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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perfectman

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After a very successful encounter with this girl, i went on two dates with her. I called her for a third date, but she wanted to stay home. I called her on the day of the planned date to make sure she's not just bluffing, and i gave her my #. This is the third time i called her in a total of three weeks. We never conversed over the phone or use instant message, we only talk on dates.

Should i let her call me for the next date?


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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dude...you thought she was BLUFFING??

I guess your first encounter wasn't that "successful"
 
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If she was really interested, she would have accepted another date. Start looking for other women.
 
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Take a break of one week. Call her again. If no dice then move on.
 
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dunno with a name like perfectman, don't think you need my help.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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