"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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perfectman

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After a very successful encounter with this girl, i went on two dates with her. I called her for a third date, but she wanted to stay home. I called her on the day of the planned date to make sure she's not just bluffing, and i gave her my #. This is the third time i called her in a total of three weeks. We never conversed over the phone or use instant message, we only talk on dates.

Should i let her call me for the next date?


Thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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smoke city

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Dude...you thought she was BLUFFING??

I guess your first encounter wasn't that "successful"
 

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If she was really interested, she would have accepted another date. Start looking for other women.
 

Ricky

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Take a break of one week. Call her again. If no dice then move on.
 

DeathDealer

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dunno with a name like perfectman, don't think you need my help.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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