"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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She sends the signals but no date, the hell?

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The majoirty of the signals i am given, but when i ask for a date she declines should i move on? I mean there are more gurls that like me but this one takes the cake.

2 things to point out tho

1. I told her i have a had a crush on her. Which i assume is the worst idea ever. But she seemed to be more open about her signals after i told her. o_0

2.When i told her i have a crush on her she hit me with "im kinda in that direction with someone right now" Is this chic tryn to run "game" on me?

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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TheOnE111 said:
The majoirty of the signals i am given, but when i ask for a date she declines should i move on? I mean there are more gurls that like me but this one takes the cake.

2 things to point out tho

1. I told her i have a had a crush on her. Which i assume is the worst idea ever. But she seemed to be more open about her signals after i told her. o_0

2.When i told her i have a crush on her she hit me with "im kinda in that direction with someone right now" Is this chic tryn to run "game" on me?

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It seems like she laid bait and you jumped on it too eagerly. It pays to play dumb in these instances until she really makes it obvious.
 
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Move on. Don't tell a girl you have a "crush" on her. You are the prize, make her qualify to you.

If you move along and leave this chick alone, she will probably come back to you for more attention. Don't take the bait, next.
 
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Consider ganjiing her.

But yeah, like others said, you went about asking her out in a chumpish way. Signal your interest by some light flirting (possibly) and then just ask for her # (Actually, don't ask. Be more like, "Just give me your # and I'll call you) and/or invite her to somewhere specific right on the spot. None of this "I really like you" or "will you go out with me" or "I have a crush on you" crap. Get your act together and be just a tad bit smooth, dude.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I've bein had her #. everything seems kool, even after i asked she was more fluent with her kino an sgnals then before. but w/e 2morro im goin out an gettin some #'s screw around an **** problem solved.
 
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