"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She seems Untouchable

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Over the summer i chatted with this girl online, it was this girl from school and i saw we had the same interest but i didn't think i would be having a class with her this year. Well i do. So heres the thing, this girl has a great body, looks great, and is very nice. As a matter of fact when someone sneezes in the classroom she is the only one that says "bless you". So i talked to her a bit, it seems like she goes out alot and is a party girl. I don't, since i recently moved my friends live far away so i don't go out much. I mean what would a Don Jon do in this situation. Should i just leave her alone. It would be ashame to find such a nice girl but not being able to do anything about it. She seems to already have an exciting life, what could I offer her??
Well If this is possible(me talking to her) can anyone atleast give me a few pointers what to do, i read so much advice i don't know exactly where to start. Should i start teasing her, telling her jokes, tell her intersting stories??
How do i get this whole thing started. She sits behind me in class, but she sits by herself. Should i sit next to her next time.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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my advice? (and please only use it if you think it's right, i'm not that experienced).

sit next to her talk to ther, and one of three things will happen.

You get high IL from her, and have fun.

You get friendzoned, but since you're in a place w/o friends and she's a party girl that could turn out to be what you need.

You get "rejected" but hey no biggie, she wasn't that important!
 
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"i chatted with this girl online"

what are you waiting for, talk to her!
the more time you spend thinking about it, the more your chances will go away.

sit next to her, make her laugh, have fun with her, and maybe be a little sexual if you think you're ready, nothing too sexual though, just "friendly touching"

but man my real advice is, whatever you do, don't get focused on this one girl, the focus should be on making yourself into the better man. thats all you need to know.
 
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