"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She seems Untouchable

Comeback kid

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Over the summer i chatted with this girl online, it was this girl from school and i saw we had the same interest but i didn't think i would be having a class with her this year. Well i do. So heres the thing, this girl has a great body, looks great, and is very nice. As a matter of fact when someone sneezes in the classroom she is the only one that says "bless you". So i talked to her a bit, it seems like she goes out alot and is a party girl. I don't, since i recently moved my friends live far away so i don't go out much. I mean what would a Don Jon do in this situation. Should i just leave her alone. It would be ashame to find such a nice girl but not being able to do anything about it. She seems to already have an exciting life, what could I offer her??
Well If this is possible(me talking to her) can anyone atleast give me a few pointers what to do, i read so much advice i don't know exactly where to start. Should i start teasing her, telling her jokes, tell her intersting stories??
How do i get this whole thing started. She sits behind me in class, but she sits by herself. Should i sit next to her next time.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Royal Ace

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my advice? (and please only use it if you think it's right, i'm not that experienced).

sit next to her talk to ther, and one of three things will happen.

You get high IL from her, and have fun.

You get friendzoned, but since you're in a place w/o friends and she's a party girl that could turn out to be what you need.

You get "rejected" but hey no biggie, she wasn't that important!
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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"i chatted with this girl online"

what are you waiting for, talk to her!
the more time you spend thinking about it, the more your chances will go away.

sit next to her, make her laugh, have fun with her, and maybe be a little sexual if you think you're ready, nothing too sexual though, just "friendly touching"

but man my real advice is, whatever you do, don't get focused on this one girl, the focus should be on making yourself into the better man. thats all you need to know.
 
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