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She seems interested, but...

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There's a girl that I have a class with that seems to be real interested in me. However, despite her obvious interest she conspicuously mentions that she has a boyfriend when she talks to her friends nearby.

This really baffles me, as from the moment she met me she practically threw herself at me and continuously displayed high interest. This is one of the only times when the girl has been more interested in me than I am in her. I was talking to someone earlier about this and they said that she might be testing my reaction to her having a boyfriend, like to see if I get jealous. That sounds kinda like a load of BS to me.

Any ideas about what the hell she could mean by all this?
 

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Sounds like it is one of those get the fwck over it moments. I am currently in a very similar situation. She has a BF but hes a pvssy and she is getting bored as hell. So whenever she sees me she practically attacks me. If she's interested and she has a BF, all that really means is that, HE IS BORING HER.
 
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Oh yeah, also today the girl's friend was teasing her by telling me and everyone else at our table that the girl told her and her friends that she liked me while I was gone on Friday.(wow,what a confusing sentence)The girl was actively denying it and trying not to look at me, which I took as a good sign for some reason.
 
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Okay, she likes you.

What the hell do you care what she says? Her 'boyfriend' is most definatly just a test, most likely to incline you to act because she can't (because she's taken). Regardless, just a test.
 
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