Hi all,
I'm a college sophomore looking for some thoughtful advice here--I have had girlfriends and what not, but the last time I approached a girl who I wasn't simply trying to hook up with but wanted to maybe date was some time ago. That being said, I met somebody this weekend that I liked quite a bit, and I don't want to **** this up. Hopefully you can help.
I went to an event w/another date, and at this event was a girl who I had met very briefly in the past and enjoyed talking to. This night, we both came to an event with people we weren't interested in and hit it off together. She was consistently complimentary of me (telling me at various points that I was handsome, charming and that it 'took a lot of self control not to make out with you right there'. All in all, we seemed to have a pretty good rapport, I got her number, and she went home with her friends.
Later the next night, she posted something at least mildly playful/flirtatious on my facebook wall, to which i replied. I sent her a text message the following day (Yesterday), with something related to her post, and she replied a couple hours later with yet another facebook post and a text. I responded via text a few hours later, late at night, and she did not respond and hasn't responded today. All we've been talking about is music, as we are both musicians, but i want to try and move it beyond that/get out on a date with her.
We are finishing finals now and will be on break for a week, so I don't want to do anything and see the momentum broken. I also don't want to let this slip away. What's the course of action between now and the start of next term in 13 days or so? Anything at all?
I'm a college sophomore looking for some thoughtful advice here--I have had girlfriends and what not, but the last time I approached a girl who I wasn't simply trying to hook up with but wanted to maybe date was some time ago. That being said, I met somebody this weekend that I liked quite a bit, and I don't want to **** this up. Hopefully you can help.
I went to an event w/another date, and at this event was a girl who I had met very briefly in the past and enjoyed talking to. This night, we both came to an event with people we weren't interested in and hit it off together. She was consistently complimentary of me (telling me at various points that I was handsome, charming and that it 'took a lot of self control not to make out with you right there'. All in all, we seemed to have a pretty good rapport, I got her number, and she went home with her friends.
Later the next night, she posted something at least mildly playful/flirtatious on my facebook wall, to which i replied. I sent her a text message the following day (Yesterday), with something related to her post, and she replied a couple hours later with yet another facebook post and a text. I responded via text a few hours later, late at night, and she did not respond and hasn't responded today. All we've been talking about is music, as we are both musicians, but i want to try and move it beyond that/get out on a date with her.
We are finishing finals now and will be on break for a week, so I don't want to do anything and see the momentum broken. I also don't want to let this slip away. What's the course of action between now and the start of next term in 13 days or so? Anything at all?
