"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She says "You're not man enough"

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I'll start off by saying I'm 6'1'' 183 lbs, and this girl I had been trying to nail told me the other night that I'm not man enough for her.
What do you guys make of this?
 

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Shyt test, nothing to do with your height, wants you to assure her through word and deed that she is mistaken.
 

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martinshernwood said:
I'll start off by saying I'm 6'1'' 183 lbs, and this girl I had been trying to nail told me the other night that I'm not man enough for her.
What do you guys make of this?
You didn't really provide enough info to get a meaningful response....besides what someone else just said.
 

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Tell her:"I´m more of a man than you will ever be!" j/k

yeah, it´s a sh!t test. Don´t take it seriously
 

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What woman says: "Your not man enough."
What woman means: "Please try harder to get with me."

Now I don't know the background of the situation. But, I think this comment has nothing to do with looks or body size. Women tend to think more emotionally. So, I believe she maybe trying to challenge you to work harder for her affection assuming that she has some level of interest towards you. Therefore don't get discouraged, you need to show more social proof and more worth in her eyes before she will go to bed with you. Try doing just that by showing you are man enough by showing attention to another girl while subtly ignoring her. This subtle technique may work or you may need a more direct approach to prove yourself depending on the situation. But, above all do not get discouraged, she is just trying to challenge you a little bit.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tell her you have a very close friend that would beg to differ, and ask if she wants to work it out with him.
 

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You waint man enough for her like Toni Braxton bro
 

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tell her she is right and that you are actually gay
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I had a girl that said "you don't get a chance because you're a puss," this was at a bar and we were all drunk and I was aguing with her.... She just blurted it out when we weren't even on the subject. It has nothing to do with my size. I'm 6'3" 250lbs. So even if I didn't get with her, it made me realize what I need to do, build confidence with women. I don't think I'm ridiculous, I don't shower them with compliments and gifts, etc, but I need to grab the bull by the horns, probably what you need to do as well... Girls probably know you like them just by the way you act toward them, or, they are way hot and know all guys want them (or they think ths).
 

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There could also be another possibility, and that's you're a pretty boy. I've heard some girls are turned off by this, either metrosexual or guys that don't act like a man.
 
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