I had a girl that said "you don't get a chance because you're a puss," this was at a bar and we were all drunk and I was aguing with her.... She just blurted it out when we weren't even on the subject. It has nothing to do with my size. I'm 6'3" 250lbs. So even if I didn't get with her, it made me realize what I need to do, build confidence with women. I don't think I'm ridiculous, I don't shower them with compliments and gifts, etc, but I need to grab the bull by the horns, probably what you need to do as well... Girls probably know you like them just by the way you act toward them, or, they are way hot and know all guys want them (or they think ths).