"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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well there is this girl i've known since my sophmore year, where i probably was thrown into the "friend zone" but then she moved and went to another school. its funny because when she was in the same school as i, we didn't talk too much at all. when she went off to her new school, we began talking more often and she even started calling me her "best friend".

we don't hang out at all anymore, but she always recommends we hang out, but it just never works out in the end ( i get busy, she gets busy)

heres the main part. i want to **** her, but she keeps saying we're just friends and ive even flirted with her by suggesting instead of bf/gf we just become **** buddies ( i didnt say that directly of course)

I texted her a while back and we ended up talking about my sex life and i said " well if you scratch my back, ill scratch yours " and she said " lmfao you're crazy" and now whenever we talk " scratching my back" is an inside joke for sex.

is this just friend material?! she never said no, but she never said yes either.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BongDuy said:
well there is this girl i've known since my sophmore year, where i probably was thrown into the "friend zone" but then she moved and went to another school. its funny because when she was in the same school as i, we didn't talk too much at all. when she went off to her new school, we began talking more often and she even started calling me her "best friend".

we don't hang out at all anymore, but she always recommends we hang out, but it just never works out in the end ( i get busy, she gets busy)

heres the main part. i want to **** her, but she keeps saying we're just friends and ive even flirted with her by suggesting instead of bf/gf we just become **** buddies ( i didnt say that directly of course)

I texted her a while back and we ended up talking about my sex life and i said " well if you scratch my back, ill scratch yours " and she said " lmfao you're crazy" and now whenever we talk " scratching my back" is an inside joke for sex.

is this just friend material?! she never said no, but she never said yes either.
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Well, I had a situation recently where the girl always called us BFF's. So, I chilled out with her one night and went in for kiss (made my move) and then we ended up changing from BFF's (best friends forever) to "BFF" (Best Fvcking Friends). We were friends for two years while I dated her best friend :p. I tell her it took me two years to be able to date her. She looks at me and says " you dated Sarah for two years." Yeah, now your just getting technical.

So, I suppose my best advice is isolate and make a move. Remove all doubt.

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You have to hang out with her and initiate kino to show that you dont wanna be just friends.
 
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thanks for everything guys. i will do this after she breaks up with her current bf :D
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well at least he is waiting :p

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Now she has a bf too? Lol I think you have another bad case of oneitis my friend.

Just next this chick and move on, theres really no point in waiting around for her to break up with her bf, and even if she did, theres no telling if she would go straight to you.

Never wait around for any woman, and never wait around for something to happen.
 
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