She says we're just friends but i disagree

[BongDuy]

well there is this girl i've known since my sophmore year, where i probably was thrown into the "friend zone" but then she moved and went to another school. its funny because when she was in the same school as i, we didn't talk too much at all. when she went off to her new school, we began talking more often and she even started calling me her "best friend".

we don't hang out at all anymore, but she always recommends we hang out, but it just never works out in the end ( i get busy, she gets busy)

heres the main part. i want to **** her, but she keeps saying we're just friends and ive even flirted with her by suggesting instead of bf/gf we just become **** buddies ( i didnt say that directly of course)

I texted her a while back and we ended up talking about my sex life and i said " well if you scratch my back, ill scratch yours " and she said " lmfao you're crazy" and now whenever we talk " scratching my back" is an inside joke for sex.

is this just friend material?! she never said no, but she never said yes either.

 

[comic_relief]

well there is this girl i've known since my sophmore year, where i probably was thrown into the "friend zone" but then she moved and went to another school. its funny because when she was in the same school as i, we didn't talk too much at all. when she went off to her new school, we began talking more often and she even started calling me her "best friend".

we don't hang out at all anymore, but she always recommends we hang out, but it just never works out in the end ( i get busy, she gets busy)

heres the main part. i want to **** her, but she keeps saying we're just friends and ive even flirted with her by suggesting instead of bf/gf we just become **** buddies ( i didnt say that directly of course)

I texted her a while back and we ended up talking about my sex life and i said " well if you scratch my back, ill scratch yours " and she said " lmfao you're crazy" and now whenever we talk " scratching my back" is an inside joke for sex.

is this just friend material?! she never said no, but she never said yes either.

Well, I had a situation recently where the girl always called us BFF's. So, I chilled out with her one night and went in for kiss (made my move) and then we ended up changing from BFF's (best friends forever) to "BFF" (Best Fvcking Friends). We were friends for two years while I dated her best friend . I tell her it took me two years to be able to date her. She looks at me and says " you dated Sarah for two years." Yeah, now your just getting technical.

So, I suppose my best advice is isolate and make a move. Remove all doubt.

- comic_relief

 

[eaglez1177]

You have to hang out with her and initiate kino to show that you dont wanna be just friends.

 

[BongDuy]

You have to hang out with her and initiate kino to show that you dont wanna be just friends.

thanks for everything guys. i will do this after she breaks up with her current bf

 

[comic_relief]

thanks for everything guys. i will do this after she breaks up with her current bf

well at least he is waiting

- comic_relief

 

[eaglez1177]

Now she has a bf too? Lol I think you have another bad case of oneitis my friend.

Just next this chick and move on, theres really no point in waiting around for her to break up with her bf, and even if she did, theres no telling if she would go straight to you.

Never wait around for any woman, and never wait around for something to happen.

 

[BongDuy]

tru for sure. im not sure why i want to get freaky with her, i think its because she is not giving a straight " no" for an answer. i wont wait for her though, but if she happens to be single and i happen to be single, then i will make a move