Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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She says shes not a gold digger

noBSgames

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But I had to laugh at this...

" I work very hard and take care of my own. At this point I want to find a special guy that knows how special I am. I want to be spoiled rotten. Because I spoil myself daily, you must be able to keep up not a gold digger, but tired of guys who can't cover the check*I am expensive*. Sweet, humble, down to earth."

Not a gold digger and shes expensive do not go hand in hand.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A gold digger is not a woman who wants you to pay for dinner. Gold digging is when they leave a guy with a boat for a guy with two boats.

Look at the behavior of other mammals and you'll see it's much closer to prostitution than marriage. A female's value is declining so she needs to cash in when she is fertile. That is her instinct. A human female needs a man with at least a quarter million to spend raising a child for 18 years (average cost - about $1100 per month just for each child). Hence many women have sex with a someone who pays the rent.

More women should charge for sex when they are young, and they should be forced to save it and then they won't need welfare when they reach 35.

The idea that women are independent is preposterous. The average woman costs taxpayers $150,000 in her lifetime (about $2000 per year for 75 years, or $5.07 per day). This is why women historically would be willing to do the dishes or something.

Men meanwhile pull their own weight on average. Now the State forces every man into the role of beta provider. The average man pays for 2.5 people to survive on his taxes. As we see, women are a net negative meaning they DO NOT pay taxes. They RECEIVE taxes.

Thus, given that the State gives women $5.07 per day, you need to provide at least $6.00 worth of free stuff to make it worth it for her.

If you want women to cost less? Stop the welfare state.
 

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She says she works hard and takes care of her own yet wants a man to cover the cheque. I think the woman who posted this just has a very low IQ. Sweet, humble and down to earth - hmm isn't everyone who has a profile...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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djthiago1

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I hate people who think too highly of themselves. The one's who brag the most, are the worst.
 
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El Payaso

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If she has to tell you she's not a gold digger, she probably is.

Just like when women say "I don't usually do this..." right as they do that very thing.
 
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