"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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She says shes not a gold digger

noBSgames

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But I had to laugh at this...

" I work very hard and take care of my own. At this point I want to find a special guy that knows how special I am. I want to be spoiled rotten. Because I spoil myself daily, you must be able to keep up not a gold digger, but tired of guys who can't cover the check*I am expensive*. Sweet, humble, down to earth."

Not a gold digger and shes expensive do not go hand in hand.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A gold digger is not a woman who wants you to pay for dinner. Gold digging is when they leave a guy with a boat for a guy with two boats.

Look at the behavior of other mammals and you'll see it's much closer to prostitution than marriage. A female's value is declining so she needs to cash in when she is fertile. That is her instinct. A human female needs a man with at least a quarter million to spend raising a child for 18 years (average cost - about $1100 per month just for each child). Hence many women have sex with a someone who pays the rent.

More women should charge for sex when they are young, and they should be forced to save it and then they won't need welfare when they reach 35.

The idea that women are independent is preposterous. The average woman costs taxpayers $150,000 in her lifetime (about $2000 per year for 75 years, or $5.07 per day). This is why women historically would be willing to do the dishes or something.

Men meanwhile pull their own weight on average. Now the State forces every man into the role of beta provider. The average man pays for 2.5 people to survive on his taxes. As we see, women are a net negative meaning they DO NOT pay taxes. They RECEIVE taxes.

Thus, given that the State gives women $5.07 per day, you need to provide at least $6.00 worth of free stuff to make it worth it for her.

If you want women to cost less? Stop the welfare state.
 

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She says she works hard and takes care of her own yet wants a man to cover the cheque. I think the woman who posted this just has a very low IQ. Sweet, humble and down to earth - hmm isn't everyone who has a profile...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I hate people who think too highly of themselves. The one's who brag the most, are the worst.
 
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El Payaso

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If she has to tell you she's not a gold digger, she probably is.

Just like when women say "I don't usually do this..." right as they do that very thing.
 
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