"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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She says she's a virgin

kixs

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Hello!

I only recently broke up with my LTR (1 year). Have done some approaches, got some numbers...

Yesterday I went to a club... danced a little... and then I grabbed one girl and we danced for a while... while dancing we had a little convo and she tells me that she is a virgin and won't have sex till married. Of course I didn't pay much attention about that... couse she is 28yo. She gave me her number and looked really interested-bodylanguage and verbal... (but who knows for sure)

All I really want is some fun, nothing serious (its about summer time :) ).

I think she's only playing hard to catch (f*ck)... I will know more when we meet. And if she's really serious about this virgin stuff... she can still make a good "pawn".

Any comments on her words about been a virgin and how to play it? Just ignore that or tell her its a smart thing and play her game and somehow turn it around...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TheFlyingMan

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As an AFC I had 2 very innocent looking girls that I did not fvk even when they came and slept in my bed because they told me they were virgins and I believed them. Turns out they were sexing everyone behind my back and they were also laughing at how nice i was to them and not getting any sex (them and the guys they were fcking).

So don't believe that ****. Tap it. TAP IT HARD. If it turns out she is a virgin, it's good luck. Pop it and go to the casino afterwards!
 

Morphiex

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girls saying that theyr virgins are the same as guys saying yeah i hit the gym everyday ... they both lie....
and there are some xtreme cases where women join these born again virgin crap groups... so that they can feel less of a slut.....than what they actually are....
 

Blusher

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girls saying that theyr virgins are the same as guys saying yeah i hit the gym everyday ... they both lie....
Yeah. There are no virgins in this worl and I skipped practice yesterday. :rolleyes:
 

dakota

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Sometimes they are what they say they are and not what others think. I, at 38 and a teacher, the community rummours have me sleeping with a whole string of 8-10 HB reccent high school graduates over the last few years. The HB have told their freinds they slept with me in some cases. The reality is that I am actually still a virgin, but hardly anyone actually believes it...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Morphiex

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Blusher said:
Yeah. There are no virgins in this worl and I skipped practice yesterday. :rolleyes:
i didnt say that there werent any virgins or that all girls lie ,i said its common for girls these days to say that they are virgins as its is for guys saying that they hit the gym everyday . they both lie ... ofcourse some guys do hit the gym every day and ofcourse some girls are virgins ...
 
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