"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She says she's a virgin

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kixs

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Hello!

I only recently broke up with my LTR (1 year). Have done some approaches, got some numbers...

Yesterday I went to a club... danced a little... and then I grabbed one girl and we danced for a while... while dancing we had a little convo and she tells me that she is a virgin and won't have sex till married. Of course I didn't pay much attention about that... couse she is 28yo. She gave me her number and looked really interested-bodylanguage and verbal... (but who knows for sure)

All I really want is some fun, nothing serious (its about summer time :) ).

I think she's only playing hard to catch (f*ck)... I will know more when we meet. And if she's really serious about this virgin stuff... she can still make a good "pawn".

Any comments on her words about been a virgin and how to play it? Just ignore that or tell her its a smart thing and play her game and somehow turn it around...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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As an AFC I had 2 very innocent looking girls that I did not fvk even when they came and slept in my bed because they told me they were virgins and I believed them. Turns out they were sexing everyone behind my back and they were also laughing at how nice i was to them and not getting any sex (them and the guys they were fcking).

So don't believe that ****. Tap it. TAP IT HARD. If it turns out she is a virgin, it's good luck. Pop it and go to the casino afterwards!
 
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girls saying that theyr virgins are the same as guys saying yeah i hit the gym everyday ... they both lie....
and there are some xtreme cases where women join these born again virgin crap groups... so that they can feel less of a slut.....than what they actually are....
 
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girls saying that theyr virgins are the same as guys saying yeah i hit the gym everyday ... they both lie....
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Yeah. There are no virgins in this worl and I skipped practice yesterday. :rolleyes:
 
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Sometimes they are what they say they are and not what others think. I, at 38 and a teacher, the community rummours have me sleeping with a whole string of 8-10 HB reccent high school graduates over the last few years. The HB have told their freinds they slept with me in some cases. The reality is that I am actually still a virgin, but hardly anyone actually believes it...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Morphiex

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Blusher said:
Yeah. There are no virgins in this worl and I skipped practice yesterday. :rolleyes:
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i didnt say that there werent any virgins or that all girls lie ,i said its common for girls these days to say that they are virgins as its is for guys saying that they hit the gym everyday . they both lie ... ofcourse some guys do hit the gym every day and ofcourse some girls are virgins ...
 
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