funketekun
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she says she is too young for me.
need come backs now!!!
need come backs now!!!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
she says she is too young for me
- Thread starter funketekun
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
knglerxt
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You don't need any comebacks. If that's what she thinks, forget her.
Master Bates
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sooo....... how the hell old is she? For all we know she IS too young for you.
funketekun
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she is 19.
why do u say forget her? man, u cant be a quitter. u have to try hard. how are u planing to get chicks if u dont work hard.
its just like going to write an exam...so if i faill...i dont go to class anymore? what kind of mind set is that?
why do u say forget her? man, u cant be a quitter. u have to try hard. how are u planing to get chicks if u dont work hard.
its just like going to write an exam...so if i faill...i dont go to class anymore? what kind of mind set is that?
funketekun
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she is 19.
why do u say forget her? man, u cant be a quitter. u have to try hard. how are u planing to get chicks if u dont work hard.
its just like going to write an exam...so if i faill...i dont go to class anymore? what kind of mind set is that?
why do u say forget her? man, u cant be a quitter. u have to try hard. how are u planing to get chicks if u dont work hard.
its just like going to write an exam...so if i faill...i dont go to class anymore? what kind of mind set is that?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Master Bates
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Yeah, she may be serious about the age thing. She's still a teenager, so it's perfectly reasonable for her to feel kinda weird about dating someone a decade older.
amoka
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What are your expectations of her? Do you want her to be your 'date' or someone to just fvck? If you're planning on dating her, then I'll say you leave her and find some in your age range. If on the other hand you simply want to nail her, there is no reason for her to be thinking she is too young for you. You should rather be the one making age-difference calculation. Just tell her, "yeah your righ, I'll give you some time to be mature enough..."funketekun said:
It depends.funketekun said:
You have to alternate between the two, you can't give up easily, but you can't let a girl waste too much of your time.
If she is, next her, move on, find someone better.
That's the mindset you need.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Livinlifehard
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She might be to young... you guys are at diffrent points in your life... her: going to school... you: in a carrer
I've dated 19 year old girls before, you have to make sure that they are mature enough to handle it though. At that age a lot of girls still have that romantic idea of finding that one guy who makes her feel special and hanging onto him and changing him into the perfect guy...it can lead to heart break and that just isn't cool.
However if she is cool, attractive and has realistic expectation about what dating an older guy is really about, then go for it, you just can't beat that young stuff when you are in your late twenties
However if she is cool, attractive and has realistic expectation about what dating an older guy is really about, then go for it, you just can't beat that young stuff when you are in your late twenties
hmm...
And just to add:
If a girl tells you that she is too young then either she isn’t interested, genuinely thinks that she IS too young (also considered as not interested), or playing hard to get.
You also need to keep in mind that girls at the age of 19 also have a sh!tload of social pressure from their friends etc, and has probably already discussed YOU with her friends and was probably told "why you going after such old guys when U can be dating these young sexy guys?" blah blah blah.. Women and their drama talks / speeches etc.
Anyways, if I were you I would reply saying something along the lines of "Too young for what exactly? *playfully* You're too beautiful to be too young "
This should sufficiently flatter her and get her thinking twice. Otherwise, don’t worry about this girl too much, while she is sorting herself out, you should be busy texting some other chick. Never make ONE woman the center of your "dating life", that’s only for when things start getting serious between you and another woman.
Laterz...
dito.amoka said:
And just to add:
If a girl tells you that she is too young then either she isn’t interested, genuinely thinks that she IS too young (also considered as not interested), or playing hard to get.
You also need to keep in mind that girls at the age of 19 also have a sh!tload of social pressure from their friends etc, and has probably already discussed YOU with her friends and was probably told "why you going after such old guys when U can be dating these young sexy guys?" blah blah blah.. Women and their drama talks / speeches etc.
Anyways, if I were you I would reply saying something along the lines of "Too young for what exactly? *playfully* You're too beautiful to be too young
" This should sufficiently flatter her and get her thinking twice. Otherwise, don’t worry about this girl too much, while she is sorting herself out, you should be busy texting some other chick. Never make ONE woman the center of your "dating life", that’s only for when things start getting serious between you and another woman.
Laterz...
the pokemaster
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lol. there isn't really a comeback man. all you can do is build some rapport. ie:
"what you don't like mature men? your different, loads of chicks dig older guys"
and then probably say
"well you have to try something at least 3 times before you say you don't like it, trust me i know, im older and wiser."
"what you don't like mature men? your different, loads of chicks dig older guys"
and then probably say
"well you have to try something at least 3 times before you say you don't like it, trust me i know, im older and wiser."
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
funketekun
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wow. thanks for the quick replies.
u guys are experts.
u guys are experts.
PigAdlemPimp
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I can't understand how a 28 year old dude would be considered by a 19 year old babe as being too old to date, Elvis Presley was 41 when he was engaged to 19 year old beauty queen Ginger Alden, Rod Stewart is 61 and soon to marry 35 year old model Penny Lancaster, Paul McCartney was 61 when he married 35 year old model Heather Mills, Donald Trump is 59 and his wife Melania Knauss is only 35, Tom Cruise is 44 and his actress wife Katie Holmes is 28, so how can she be too young for you.
I read in a recent thread that it is much easier to get the hottest babes if you are a rock star opposed to those unknown dudes who have perfect game, I think this proves that point. :yes:
I read in a recent thread that it is much easier to get the hottest babes if you are a rock star opposed to those unknown dudes who have perfect game, I think this proves that point. :yes:
Hitman10000
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Probably too old, but most likely the both of you are at different life stages.
Please don't use celebrities as a reason to give hope to normal average guys to pick up much younger chicks. Why should a 20 year old girl spread her legs wide for some 40 year old bar fly geezer? She'd probably do it if he was a real estate mogule with 15-20 properties around the United States.
Please don't use celebrities as a reason to give hope to normal average guys to pick up much younger chicks. Why should a 20 year old girl spread her legs wide for some 40 year old bar fly geezer? She'd probably do it if he was a real estate mogule with 15-20 properties around the United States.