funketekun
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she says she is too young for me.
need come backs now!!!
need come backs now!!!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
she says she is too young for me
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
knglerxt
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You don't need any comebacks. If that's what she thinks, forget her.
Master Bates
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sooo....... how the hell old is she? For all we know she IS too young for you.
funketekun
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she is 19.
why do u say forget her? man, u cant be a quitter. u have to try hard. how are u planing to get chicks if u dont work hard.
its just like going to write an exam...so if i faill...i dont go to class anymore? what kind of mind set is that?
why do u say forget her? man, u cant be a quitter. u have to try hard. how are u planing to get chicks if u dont work hard.
its just like going to write an exam...so if i faill...i dont go to class anymore? what kind of mind set is that?
funketekun
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she is 19.
why do u say forget her? man, u cant be a quitter. u have to try hard. how are u planing to get chicks if u dont work hard.
its just like going to write an exam...so if i faill...i dont go to class anymore? what kind of mind set is that?
why do u say forget her? man, u cant be a quitter. u have to try hard. how are u planing to get chicks if u dont work hard.
its just like going to write an exam...so if i faill...i dont go to class anymore? what kind of mind set is that?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Master Bates
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Yeah, she may be serious about the age thing. She's still a teenager, so it's perfectly reasonable for her to feel kinda weird about dating someone a decade older.
amoka
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What are your expectations of her? Do you want her to be your 'date' or someone to just fvck? If you're planning on dating her, then I'll say you leave her and find some in your age range. If on the other hand you simply want to nail her, there is no reason for her to be thinking she is too young for you. You should rather be the one making age-difference calculation. Just tell her, "yeah your righ, I'll give you some time to be mature enough..."funketekun said:
It depends.funketekun said:
You have to alternate between the two, you can't give up easily, but you can't let a girl waste too much of your time.
If she is, next her, move on, find someone better.
That's the mindset you need.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Livinlifehard
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She might be to young... you guys are at diffrent points in your life... her: going to school... you: in a carrer
I've dated 19 year old girls before, you have to make sure that they are mature enough to handle it though. At that age a lot of girls still have that romantic idea of finding that one guy who makes her feel special and hanging onto him and changing him into the perfect guy...it can lead to heart break and that just isn't cool.
However if she is cool, attractive and has realistic expectation about what dating an older guy is really about, then go for it, you just can't beat that young stuff when you are in your late twenties
However if she is cool, attractive and has realistic expectation about what dating an older guy is really about, then go for it, you just can't beat that young stuff when you are in your late twenties
hmm...
And just to add:
If a girl tells you that she is too young then either she isn’t interested, genuinely thinks that she IS too young (also considered as not interested), or playing hard to get.
You also need to keep in mind that girls at the age of 19 also have a sh!tload of social pressure from their friends etc, and has probably already discussed YOU with her friends and was probably told "why you going after such old guys when U can be dating these young sexy guys?" blah blah blah.. Women and their drama talks / speeches etc.
Anyways, if I were you I would reply saying something along the lines of "Too young for what exactly? *playfully* You're too beautiful to be too young "
This should sufficiently flatter her and get her thinking twice. Otherwise, don’t worry about this girl too much, while she is sorting herself out, you should be busy texting some other chick. Never make ONE woman the center of your "dating life", that’s only for when things start getting serious between you and another woman.
Laterz...
dito.amoka said:
And just to add:
If a girl tells you that she is too young then either she isn’t interested, genuinely thinks that she IS too young (also considered as not interested), or playing hard to get.
You also need to keep in mind that girls at the age of 19 also have a sh!tload of social pressure from their friends etc, and has probably already discussed YOU with her friends and was probably told "why you going after such old guys when U can be dating these young sexy guys?" blah blah blah.. Women and their drama talks / speeches etc.
Anyways, if I were you I would reply saying something along the lines of "Too young for what exactly? *playfully* You're too beautiful to be too young
" This should sufficiently flatter her and get her thinking twice. Otherwise, don’t worry about this girl too much, while she is sorting herself out, you should be busy texting some other chick. Never make ONE woman the center of your "dating life", that’s only for when things start getting serious between you and another woman.
Laterz...
the pokemaster
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lol. there isn't really a comeback man. all you can do is build some rapport. ie:
"what you don't like mature men? your different, loads of chicks dig older guys"
and then probably say
"well you have to try something at least 3 times before you say you don't like it, trust me i know, im older and wiser."
"what you don't like mature men? your different, loads of chicks dig older guys"
and then probably say
"well you have to try something at least 3 times before you say you don't like it, trust me i know, im older and wiser."
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
funketekun
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wow. thanks for the quick replies.
u guys are experts.
u guys are experts.
PigAdlemPimp
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I can't understand how a 28 year old dude would be considered by a 19 year old babe as being too old to date, Elvis Presley was 41 when he was engaged to 19 year old beauty queen Ginger Alden, Rod Stewart is 61 and soon to marry 35 year old model Penny Lancaster, Paul McCartney was 61 when he married 35 year old model Heather Mills, Donald Trump is 59 and his wife Melania Knauss is only 35, Tom Cruise is 44 and his actress wife Katie Holmes is 28, so how can she be too young for you.
I read in a recent thread that it is much easier to get the hottest babes if you are a rock star opposed to those unknown dudes who have perfect game, I think this proves that point. :yes:
I read in a recent thread that it is much easier to get the hottest babes if you are a rock star opposed to those unknown dudes who have perfect game, I think this proves that point. :yes:
Hitman10000
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Probably too old, but most likely the both of you are at different life stages.
Please don't use celebrities as a reason to give hope to normal average guys to pick up much younger chicks. Why should a 20 year old girl spread her legs wide for some 40 year old bar fly geezer? She'd probably do it if he was a real estate mogule with 15-20 properties around the United States.
Please don't use celebrities as a reason to give hope to normal average guys to pick up much younger chicks. Why should a 20 year old girl spread her legs wide for some 40 year old bar fly geezer? She'd probably do it if he was a real estate mogule with 15-20 properties around the United States.