Could be but I’d like to think I have enough experience to spot them. Guess she could be a pro AW lol
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
She says one thing, my gut says different
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
She keeps stressing that I’m the only guy she’s interested in, and I never even asked or cared. I was smart enough not to tell her she was the only woman I was talking to because she’s not. I still lean towards this girl is seriously damaged in the head and all her bad relationships have taken a toll on her mentally.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Is she chasing you, coming around, leaning up all on you?
Yep all of the above and more. She’s showing ALL the signs of being attracted to me and interested in me.....then comes the low sex drive excuse. Which is weird because we regularly make sexual comments and jokes to each other. It’s like she’s part attention ***** and part screws loose in her head lol
Well I think what made me not follow that path is mutual friends were involved and I didn’t feel like causing a riff but now I’m wishing I had.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Oh absolutely, I’m not a shy person at all. When I say I’ve done everything I mean I’ve done everything that’s ever worked for me with other girls. You can’t look at her in the eyes cause she will turn away, you can’t go but so far when kissing her, she’s even said if I pushed too hard it would push her away lol so I’m like whatever, but she won’t leave me alone. No woman goes to this much trouble for attention do they?
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
Honestly, you come off to me as a pathetic tantrum-throwing child. You are constantly complaining about how women treat you despite you not escalating until sex or rejection and playing along with games, and then to deflect away from your own agency that'll be brought up, you preemptively say how out of your control your situation is because you can't do this or that. This is just another such post. I am not surprised at all that you keep being treated the same way by women as they can likely sense the same with you in real life if I can sense it from your posting on an online forum. If you were able to do it, you would do some good introspection and work on yourself..
So what do you suggest I do?
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
AW.
Let her come to you if she chooses to. You may try pulling your dee out or grinding on her if You get proximity.
Anytime ive been deadlocked its helped me to start conjugations with someone whose feeling me. Shes a weird one dont use too much brainpower on her.
Dash Riprock
Master Don Juan
Dude, you're totally over-analyzing this. And the analytical and definitely the over-analytical types NEVER succeed with women.
RULE #1: What a woman says and what actually motivates her are often two very different things. So take her words with a grain of salt (low sex drive, not looking for a relationship, etc.). If you're interested in her, take her on a few dates and see what happens. If you like her, escalate like any other girl. If you don't, LJBF her.
No need to get all in your head about it. One of the most common mistakes/errors/blunders I read on SS over and over again--guys getting our their microscope trying to dissect and analyze every word a woman speaks.
Just. Run. Your. Game. See what happens.
Enough said.
Good luck.
RULE #1: What a woman says and what actually motivates her are often two very different things. So take her words with a grain of salt (low sex drive, not looking for a relationship, etc.). If you're interested in her, take her on a few dates and see what happens. If you like her, escalate like any other girl. If you don't, LJBF her.
No need to get all in your head about it. One of the most common mistakes/errors/blunders I read on SS over and over again--guys getting our their microscope trying to dissect and analyze every word a woman speaks.
Just. Run. Your. Game. See what happens.
Enough said.
Good luck.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
backseatjuan
Banned
3 weeks lay off of her, you ain't got nothing to loose.