“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She says "No means NO" etc...

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Duke said:
So recently this girl who looks to be good LTR material says some sh!t over instant messenger like, "If you try to cop a feel while I'm sleeping I'll throw you out of my house." (I've slept at her house twice but haven't sexed her.)

I called her bullsh!t and told her that it's a sad day if she feels she has to tell me not to touch her while she's asleep.

Nice work.

She then says that I can be "determined" and spits this at me:

her: if your trying to push your hand up my shirt and I stop you at a point that means STOP

You: "Forgive me, but I would never do anything to make you uncomfortable when we are together. "

me: ok

You should not have said ok. By saying "ok" you were telling her that you were thinking of doing something more while putting your hand up her shirt, and validating to her the thought that all guys are pigs. You have to defend yourself and push it back at her

her: it doesn't mean try again 30 seconds later
her: and try to resist my freakin hand

Ugh. The whole frame is messed up, because she shouldn't feel like she's the prize too this degree. But I am wondering if I should put ANY creedence to what she is saying.
You are 110% right, she should not feel she is the prize to that degree or almost any degree. If you do get to that point and she says "stop", you stop right away and agree with her. "You're right, I don't feel we should do this, we are moving too fast."
 
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