"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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She says "No means NO" etc...

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Duke said:
So recently this girl who looks to be good LTR material says some sh!t over instant messenger like, "If you try to cop a feel while I'm sleeping I'll throw you out of my house." (I've slept at her house twice but haven't sexed her.)

I called her bullsh!t and told her that it's a sad day if she feels she has to tell me not to touch her while she's asleep.

Nice work.

She then says that I can be "determined" and spits this at me:

her: if your trying to push your hand up my shirt and I stop you at a point that means STOP

You: "Forgive me, but I would never do anything to make you uncomfortable when we are together. "

me: ok

You should not have said ok. By saying "ok" you were telling her that you were thinking of doing something more while putting your hand up her shirt, and validating to her the thought that all guys are pigs. You have to defend yourself and push it back at her

her: it doesn't mean try again 30 seconds later
her: and try to resist my freakin hand

Ugh. The whole frame is messed up, because she shouldn't feel like she's the prize too this degree. But I am wondering if I should put ANY creedence to what she is saying.
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You are 110% right, she should not feel she is the prize to that degree or almost any degree. If you do get to that point and she says "stop", you stop right away and agree with her. "You're right, I don't feel we should do this, we are moving too fast."
 
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