BongDuy
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pretend you're just meeting a girl and you're still kinda new to each other. what do you say when she sees a guy/coach/teacher/celeb when she says that he is hot or sexy?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
She says "He" is so hot!
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Exhumed
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Threesome?
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Energizer
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I'd say this "Yeah, and so is your mother".
BongDuy
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Energizer said:
lmfao GOLD! :crackup: thanks much!
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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And if she asked you to put up or shut up what are you going to do then? Suck a c0ck?(JJ) said:"yea.... he is quite the tasty dish"
"i'd fvck him"
This is pure b!tchspeak to try and bring your momentum to a crawl.
This is how I handle these bullsh!t statements:
I find something she's obviously lacking physically and make it prominent in what I must have in order to be sexually excited for her.
Example:
Her - " OMG! He is soooo hot! Look at his awesome _________________."
Karma's response to idiot chick in an A-cup bra - "Wow, I agree full breasts with cleavage are a huge turn on for real men."
Two things happen with this.
1. She's completely self conscious and will not make this mistake again of comparing you to another dude.
2. She becomes so turned on that you're unfazed by her bullsh!t you practically just put one in the pink and another in her stink.
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hahaha! I'm so going to use this one next timeEnergizer said:
women haze
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what if she has an ugly motherEnergizer said:
derrickmn
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maybe - "Yeah, and he wouldn't touch you with a 10 foot pole..."
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
DonJuanit0
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That will make her think that you got ungry/jealous!derrickmn said:
What about "Y he is nice" and in the first nice woman you'll see, "f*ck, she is hot as hell don't you think?"
This is one of those things I wouldn't really let it affect me and I'd just keep on trying to make a good vibe with the chick... Do you understand? I think I'd just say: Yeah there are so many sexy guys around just to make the girls crazy. In a kind of joking way. Do you think that would work?? It would be like in a way that is completley natural and so. I don't think it would work out to get her interrested or something, but at least it would be a joking vibe, and sooner or later if I keep doing that stuff she would get comfortable and that is a perfect scenario for a funny\****y situation... It seems better then just being bluntly (not sure if it's the right word) ****y\funny that would make her really surprised, you have to be like that usually, not just say random ****y funny things. Does anyone here understand more or less what i'm trying to say? I guess that line would better with me since I have decently good looks. It's kind of sexual too. Damn I think I'm starting to REALLY over-analyse. lol
Do you think that would work?? It would be like in a way that is completley natural and so. I don't think it would work out to get her interrested or something, but at least it would be a joking vibe, and sooner or later if I keep doing that stuff she would get comfortable and that is a perfect scenario for a funny\****y situation... It seems better then just being bluntly (not sure if it's the right word) ****y\funny that would make her really surprised, you have to be like that usually, not just say random ****y funny things. Does anyone here understand more or less what i'm trying to say? I guess that line would better with me since I have decently good looks. It's kind of sexual too. Damn I think I'm starting to REALLY over-analyse. lol
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BongDuy
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btw is this typically a good sign if they say this? are they trying to get you jealous?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
It depends. If I am able to say such thinks as well without being slapped each and every time, it's kind of cool!
On the other hand, if that happens too often, it might get annoying to some extent. We might be tempted to do the slapping thing uh???
On the other hand, if that happens too often, it might get annoying to some extent. We might be tempted to do the slapping thing uh???
Rollo Tomassi
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Agree & Amplify.
HER: "He is so HOT"
YOU: "Yeah he is, but I'm sure his boyfriend would fight you for him, so forget it"
HER: "He is so HOT"
YOU: "Yeah he is, but I'm sure his boyfriend would fight you for him, so forget it"
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Damn I love that.....Rollo Tomassi said:
I'm using it
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Energizer
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Not used to British humour?women haze said:
I didn't think so.