BongDuy
Master Don Juan
pretend you're just meeting a girl and you're still kinda new to each other. what do you say when she sees a guy/coach/teacher/celeb when she says that he is hot or sexy?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Energizer said:I'd say this "Yeah, and so is your mother".
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
And if she asked you to put up or shut up what are you going to do then? Suck a c0ck?(JJ) said:"yea.... he is quite the tasty dish"
"i'd fvck him"
hahaha! I'm so going to use this one next timeEnergizer said:I'd say this "Yeah, and so is your mother".
what if she has an ugly motherEnergizer said:I'd say this "Yeah, and so is your mother".
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
That will make her think that you got ungry/jealous!derrickmn said:maybe - "Yeah, and he wouldn't touch you with a 10 foot pole..."
Pure Gold, Thanks for the tipKarmaSutra said:And if she asked you to put up or shut up what are you going to do then? Suck a c0ck?
This is pure b!tchspeak to try and bring your momentum to a crawl.
This is how I handle these bullsh!t statements:
I find something she's obviously lacking physically and make it prominent in what I must have in order to be sexually excited for her.
Example:
Her - " OMG! He is soooo hot! Look at his awesome _________________."
Karma's response to idiot chick in an A-cup bra - "Wow, I agree full breasts with cleavage are a huge turn on for real men."
Two things happen with this.
1. She's completely self conscious and will not make this mistake again of comparing you to another dude.
2. She becomes so turned on that you're unfazed by her bullsh!t you practically just put one in the pink and another in her stink.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Damn I love that.....Rollo Tomassi said:Agree & Amplify.
HER: "He is so HOT"
YOU: "Yeah he is, but I'm sure his boyfriend would fight you for him, so forget it"
Not used to British humour?women haze said:what if she has an ugly mother