"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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she says boobs for drinks

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Yesterday I was at a bar/club and this girl walks up to me and tells me that she and her friend will show me her boobs if I buy them drinks.

I originally said yes because she had nice boobs haha. However, before it got to far I changed my mind about it. I figured If all i was going to see was a flash of boobs for $14 bucks or whatever, I would rather save the money for pizza later as I don't have much money. Her confidence made me think this wasn't the first time these girls were using their boobs for drinks and I didn't want to be scammed like a sucker.

I've bought drinks for girls before after talking, but none have ever been so upfront with me. Has anyone had an experience like this before?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You made the right call in not giving them money. They were probably just drunk slvts.

But while we are on the subject, keep in mind that scenario offers a lot of opportunity to scam an unsuspecting guy. Maybe they would have wanted you to come outside to see the boobs, but when you get there it is a dark alley and you get mugged by their boyfriends. Or they turn out to be police informants and you get arrested for soliciting prostitution. It's called a "honey trap," and it's an easy con to pull off, by both cops and robbers.
 
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Bible_Belt said:
You made the right call in not giving them money. They were probably just drunk slvts.

But while we are on the subject, keep in mind that scenario offers a lot of opportunity to scam an unsuspecting guy. Maybe they would have wanted you to come outside to see the boobs, but when you get there it is a dark alley and you get mugged by their boyfriends. Or they turn out to be police informants and you get arrested for soliciting prostitution. It's called a "honey trap," and it's an easy con to pull off, by both cops and robbers.
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Happens all the time in sports. Just take one look at Brian Urlacher.

If you ever run into a women at a bar who is really pushing for sex and it's too good to be true, good odds you'll fall into a honey trap scenario. Wouldn't be surprised if these chicks would try it when they get older.
 
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Next time, tell them if they show you their boobs, you'll show them your meatwhistle. Then you can call it even and keep your cash.
 
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No, you ask to see the tits upfront. It's worth 14$ imho as strip clubs are expensive here. I don't honestly see how anything bad could happen to you at all, apart from seeing some tits.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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They wanted to show me right there in the club before i gave them the drinks
 
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I would have told them "I only buy pretty girls drinks" or "Have you been wearing high heels? You know they make your breasts sag don't you?"
 
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They could have just been playful! A fun night perhaps and you could have gotten to see the rest of them.
 
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"I can just 'see' tits for free. If I'm going to have to give you something for it then I better get to handle them too."
 
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Why so serious? Just play along and whatever happens happens. Act like ur surprised and say that you don't think their breasts cost that much. That should have start some funny exchanges for a few minutes at the least.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I have to say that either this a trap like was previously mentioned or these women are so pathetic that they can't afford to even pay for their own drinks!!!

Mad props to the OP for not giving in to these spineless women that are trying to make men into their own personal bar tab tools.

I think any women like these deserve a good back hand to the face :box: and I am really a non violent person as well that doesn't support hitting women. Its basically an insult to you!! Way to man up and not let women's boob's control you!!! :rockon:
 
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1) Either these girls just wanted to have some fun, it which case go for it! Nothing wrong with some girls flashing you.

Or...

2) These are the types of girls that also will tell you they are pregnant in hopes of fvking you over and stealing your money.


Most of the time it's #1.
 
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