white sox bill
Senior Don Juan
OK how would YOU handle this?MatureDJ said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
She said "yes" to date then said "no"..just my luck!
- Thread starter white sox bill
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
-HPNOTIQ-
Master Don Juan
Hey brother..I feel your pain about this situation. But, the comment above me has me thinking that you might have a slight case of the one-itis. I'm sure every guy on this forum who lost an opportunity to bang a REALLY hot babe kicked himself in the tail, but, still had a grain of hope that the opportunity would return itself...thats normal.white sox bill said:
But, when she comes back crying to you about how her ex-hubby treated her wrong, and how her new ex-boyfriend is a jerk, and how her new boyfriend is cheap..and yadda yadda....please don't become her emotional tampon.
Divorced women are the biggest attention *****'s and flakes on the planet. Especially the VERY good looking one's. Generally, their self worth is shot, their confidence is low, and they need their friends approval for everything. They need the validation of men to make them feel "special" again.
So she'll flirt with you until the cow's come home, but, you'll never have a chance because she has a trump card over you - her ex-husband is your friend.
I'm with squirrels and a few other posters her that tell you to next her. Divorced woman with kids? Not even worth the headache there. I'd put this one on the back burner as a potential (and I use that term loosely) FB..and not much more.
I'm interested in how this will turn out..Good Luck with this one.
white sox bill
Senior Don Juan
Yea she's been "nexted" Feels pretty good too!-HPNOTIQ- said:
Her ex husband just came into gym today and he told me who she is is supposed to be seeing. It turns out its this guy who absolulty hates me because I slept with his ex-wife (they were divorced), I slept with his ex GF and I dated his ex sister in law last summer who flaked on me big time(I even started a thread about her flake). Funny how certain people seem to keep popping up in your dating circle! This deal won't last long with my buddies ex...he's a control freak, has major issues, is jealous etc. She blew her one and only chance with meNEXT!