arcilitei34
Don Juan
She said she loves me.. Now what do i do?:nervous:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
She said the "L" word.
- Thread starter arcilitei34
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
The Comeback Kid
Master Don Juan
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"I know." 
wavejams007
Master Don Juan
nice U can quote movie lines, but any real life experiences, ace?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
Dump her ass!
that clingy *****.....
of course girls that just meet me tell me "I love you"
I don't take it too seriously I'm like wtf? No you dont!!
that clingy *****.....
of course girls that just meet me tell me "I love you"
I don't take it too seriously I'm like wtf? No you dont!!
Ace? lol you know, i gotta bring out the movie lines to impress you DJ vets with hundreds of posts under your belts.
David DeAngelo was the one who started saying "I know" when a woman says "I love you". If you doubt his material, go try it yourself.
The Master Disaster
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Say the following:
"I ... I ... love you too"
then pull a gun out and shoot yourself.
"I ... I ... love you too"
then pull a gun out and shoot yourself.
arcilitei34
Don Juan
Well i've been with her for a little over half a year now, just so there's no confusion about how long i've been with her.
Docs
Banned
poke her in the tummy and say:
Awwn!!! That's cute.
And then kiss her (shut her up).
Awwn!!! That's cute.
And then kiss her (shut her up
)."She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
MightyMate
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If You dont want to also say that, kiss her and start havin sex. Ther is no other way
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
Why does everyone here think that LTRs are for AFC and they are wrong?
Several people told this guy to shoot himself, dump her, etc. just because she said "I love you", hence she wants a LTR.
There is nothing anti-DJ about LTRs.
For you guys that think its AFC or wrong to be in a LTR then answer me this...
1) Why?
2) If it is wrong to be in a LTR then why not go and become a PUA? Why waste your time here? PUAs get way more ONS and that is exactly what you are looking for... Get the f*ck off of this site because a DJ doesn't get as many one night stands or short term relationships as a PUA.
Since you don't want a LTR then you either are gay, thus you should leave, or you want a one night stand or a short term relationship. In this case you should still leave and become a PUA. Reading sosuave material won't get you the success you want (ONS and STRs). Reading mASF will get you the success you want (ONS and STRs).
Enough said.
Several people told this guy to shoot himself, dump her, etc. just because she said "I love you", hence she wants a LTR.
There is nothing anti-DJ about LTRs.
For you guys that think its AFC or wrong to be in a LTR then answer me this...
1) Why?
2) If it is wrong to be in a LTR then why not go and become a PUA? Why waste your time here? PUAs get way more ONS and that is exactly what you are looking for... Get the f*ck off of this site because a DJ doesn't get as many one night stands or short term relationships as a PUA.
Since you don't want a LTR then you either are gay, thus you should leave, or you want a one night stand or a short term relationship. In this case you should still leave and become a PUA. Reading sosuave material won't get you the success you want (ONS and STRs). Reading mASF will get you the success you want (ONS and STRs).
Enough said.
wavejams007
Master Don Juan
He said that to show the confident and knkowing attitude Hans had. I know what Deangelo said, but how many of us are really ever going to be like Hans in a similar situation? the answer is nobody. That is why real life experience is worth more than movie lines.
Docs
Banned
Pow! Donk! Wha-cham-boe!
*runs out with guys chasing star*
Random explosions from within complex, shiflying everywhere
*jumps into Mercedes. looks at sexy actress beside*
"I love you!" - she says
"Oh man, I got this feeling in me, I must spread my lovin to you!!!"
*car drives away, runs over two guys in midst of makeout session within leading to explict sex scenes*
*Smack*
"I love you!" - she says
See my point yet?
Real-life is unplotted, so make it exciting and kiss her!:crackup:
*runs out with guys chasing star*
Random explosions from within complex, shiflying everywhere
*jumps into Mercedes. looks at sexy actress beside*
"I love you!" - she says
"Oh man, I got this feeling in me, I must spread my lovin to you!!!"
*car drives away, runs over two guys in midst of makeout session within leading to explict sex scenes*
*Smack*
"I love you!" - she says
See my point yet?
Real-life is unplotted, so make it exciting and kiss her!:crackup:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.