arcilitei34
Don Juan
She said she loves me.. Now what do i do?:nervous:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She said the "L" word.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
The Comeback Kid
Master Don Juan
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"I know." 
wavejams007
Master Don Juan
nice U can quote movie lines, but any real life experiences, ace?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
Dump her ass!
that clingy *****.....
of course girls that just meet me tell me "I love you"
I don't take it too seriously I'm like wtf? No you dont!!
that clingy *****.....
of course girls that just meet me tell me "I love you"
I don't take it too seriously I'm like wtf? No you dont!!
Ace? lol you know, i gotta bring out the movie lines to impress you DJ vets with hundreds of posts under your belts.
David DeAngelo was the one who started saying "I know" when a woman says "I love you". If you doubt his material, go try it yourself.
The Master Disaster
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Say the following:
"I ... I ... love you too"
then pull a gun out and shoot yourself.
"I ... I ... love you too"
then pull a gun out and shoot yourself.
arcilitei34
Don Juan
Well i've been with her for a little over half a year now, just so there's no confusion about how long i've been with her.
Docs
Banned
poke her in the tummy and say:
Awwn!!! That's cute.
And then kiss her (shut her up).
Awwn!!! That's cute.
And then kiss her (shut her up
)."Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
MightyMate
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If You dont want to also say that, kiss her and start havin sex. Ther is no other way
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
Why does everyone here think that LTRs are for AFC and they are wrong?
Several people told this guy to shoot himself, dump her, etc. just because she said "I love you", hence she wants a LTR.
There is nothing anti-DJ about LTRs.
For you guys that think its AFC or wrong to be in a LTR then answer me this...
1) Why?
2) If it is wrong to be in a LTR then why not go and become a PUA? Why waste your time here? PUAs get way more ONS and that is exactly what you are looking for... Get the f*ck off of this site because a DJ doesn't get as many one night stands or short term relationships as a PUA.
Since you don't want a LTR then you either are gay, thus you should leave, or you want a one night stand or a short term relationship. In this case you should still leave and become a PUA. Reading sosuave material won't get you the success you want (ONS and STRs). Reading mASF will get you the success you want (ONS and STRs).
Enough said.
Several people told this guy to shoot himself, dump her, etc. just because she said "I love you", hence she wants a LTR.
There is nothing anti-DJ about LTRs.
For you guys that think its AFC or wrong to be in a LTR then answer me this...
1) Why?
2) If it is wrong to be in a LTR then why not go and become a PUA? Why waste your time here? PUAs get way more ONS and that is exactly what you are looking for... Get the f*ck off of this site because a DJ doesn't get as many one night stands or short term relationships as a PUA.
Since you don't want a LTR then you either are gay, thus you should leave, or you want a one night stand or a short term relationship. In this case you should still leave and become a PUA. Reading sosuave material won't get you the success you want (ONS and STRs). Reading mASF will get you the success you want (ONS and STRs).
Enough said.
wavejams007
Master Don Juan
He said that to show the confident and knkowing attitude Hans had. I know what Deangelo said, but how many of us are really ever going to be like Hans in a similar situation? the answer is nobody. That is why real life experience is worth more than movie lines.
Docs
Banned
Pow! Donk! Wha-cham-boe!
*runs out with guys chasing star*
Random explosions from within complex, shiflying everywhere
*jumps into Mercedes. looks at sexy actress beside*
"I love you!" - she says
"Oh man, I got this feeling in me, I must spread my lovin to you!!!"
*car drives away, runs over two guys in midst of makeout session within leading to explict sex scenes*
*Smack*
"I love you!" - she says
See my point yet?
Real-life is unplotted, so make it exciting and kiss her!:crackup:
*runs out with guys chasing star*
Random explosions from within complex, shiflying everywhere
*jumps into Mercedes. looks at sexy actress beside*
"I love you!" - she says
"Oh man, I got this feeling in me, I must spread my lovin to you!!!"
*car drives away, runs over two guys in midst of makeout session within leading to explict sex scenes*
*Smack*
"I love you!" - she says
See my point yet?
Real-life is unplotted, so make it exciting and kiss her!:crackup:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.