"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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she said she's "tired of chasing me" ?

kidkurious

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so basically, this girl does all the calling... like... 100%

recently, she called me while I was with my friends. I tell her to come meet up with me and my friends at X location. Then she says "i'm tired of chasing you".

She agrees to me up with me and my friends.

This isn't the first time she said that.

My only reaction has been "ooohhh"... then i change the subject right away.

How would you react to something like that? What should I have done differently?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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KontrollerX

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She agreed to come and meet you?

Outstanding.

You didn't do anything wrong.

She loves your frame quite clearly.

Stick with it.

Don't get drawn into her reality and the minute she stops accepting your reality you move on to someone else.

Edit: You can do nice things for her at times that she might like but never under pain of death do something nice for her in response to her demanding it or suggesting you should or else risk losing her.

Its a power play and as a man you can never bend to those.
 
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Jokerlsk

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Damn.......... your lucky man. You have her in the palm of your hands. Capitalize on it.
 
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