"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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she said she's "tired of chasing me" ?

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kidkurious

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so basically, this girl does all the calling... like... 100%

recently, she called me while I was with my friends. I tell her to come meet up with me and my friends at X location. Then she says "i'm tired of chasing you".

She agrees to me up with me and my friends.

This isn't the first time she said that.

My only reaction has been "ooohhh"... then i change the subject right away.

How would you react to something like that? What should I have done differently?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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KontrollerX

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She agreed to come and meet you?

Outstanding.

You didn't do anything wrong.

She loves your frame quite clearly.

Stick with it.

Don't get drawn into her reality and the minute she stops accepting your reality you move on to someone else.

Edit: You can do nice things for her at times that she might like but never under pain of death do something nice for her in response to her demanding it or suggesting you should or else risk losing her.

Its a power play and as a man you can never bend to those.
 
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Damn.......... your lucky man. You have her in the palm of your hands. Capitalize on it.
 
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