"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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she said she's "tired of chasing me" ?

kidkurious

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so basically, this girl does all the calling... like... 100%

recently, she called me while I was with my friends. I tell her to come meet up with me and my friends at X location. Then she says "i'm tired of chasing you".

She agrees to me up with me and my friends.

This isn't the first time she said that.

My only reaction has been "ooohhh"... then i change the subject right away.

How would you react to something like that? What should I have done differently?
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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KontrollerX

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She agreed to come and meet you?

Outstanding.

You didn't do anything wrong.

She loves your frame quite clearly.

Stick with it.

Don't get drawn into her reality and the minute she stops accepting your reality you move on to someone else.

Edit: You can do nice things for her at times that she might like but never under pain of death do something nice for her in response to her demanding it or suggesting you should or else risk losing her.

Its a power play and as a man you can never bend to those.
 
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Jokerlsk

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Damn.......... your lucky man. You have her in the palm of your hands. Capitalize on it.
 
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