"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She said, "Let's take it slow, you can see other women." How should I react?
- Thread starter Fela Kuti
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
San Jose California said:based off prostitutes
2000+ posts, really?San Jose California said:Haha what the hell, fuck yeah.
Now ask yourself: are you going to just take that from a woman?I'm not into you right now.
Probably never will be.
But we'll see.
Keep doing what you're doing and feeding my ego, because I like that.
I just don't like YOU!
thevilittletroll
Senior Don Juan
ps: since she's not your gf, its impossible to cheat on her
pss: its not called cheating if you dont get caught
sorry man, but you're wrong. I can read women's IL and hers is still decent. she even said currently she doesn't like any guy but me and she's not opening up for another guy. she's just trying to get rid of the guilty feeling.TheJazz said:What she said gently, indirectly and femininely was:
Now ask yourself: are you going to just take that from a woman?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
edit: Just realized that she cheated on her ex for you. Good luck making this one last. Just bang her while you can and enjoy.
this chick is a special case. she's almost incapable of being jealous. she even allowed her past bf's to go out with any girls.49au said:Can you provide even one reason that a sane, emotionally healthy woman with any real IL would encourage you to date other women.
about the cheating, surely "once a cheater always a cheater" doesn't apply to every case.
How do you know this? Because she told you?Fela Kuti said:this chick is a special case. she's almost incapable of being jealous. she even allowed her past bf's to go out with any girls.
And she is almost incapable of being jealous, yet she can't stand when you don't contact her for 4 days?
And why shouldn't it apply here?about the cheating, surely "once a cheater always a cheater" doesn't apply to every case.
Just because what she says and what actually happens is two different things. She says she doesn't get jealous but she most likely isn't telling you the whole story about why she dumped her bf and jumped ship to you. Its been stated in another thread of yours in which you still trying to justify to yourself and others on this site why this could work;Fela Kuti said:this chick is a special case. she's almost incapable of being jealous. she even allowed her past bf's to go out with any girls.
Jaylan said:Denial is a river in your mind.
It applies to a majority of cases and the ones it doesn't it is just a cheater finally settling for a guy she can get to do whatever she wants him to do. Again as I said in this other thread:Fela Kuti said:about the cheating, surely "once a cheater always a cheater" doesn't apply to every case.
Just listen to this youtube video. Yeah its a 42 minute clip and at first you wont get the meaning but listen to the information contained within. Hopefully you'll see what is going on.Zodiac said:She drifts from one relationship to another dumping people when another shiny thing catches her eye. She cheated once before with a guy that seems to be you in this case.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OOKflZLPLys
Listen at around 5:00 onward. A woman calls up and tells why she cheated. She cheats because she did it out of spite to get even at her bf at the time. That is a common reason people cheat which is indeed spite. You have to accept the possibility, no matter how hard you want to deny it, you were a pawn in her game to spite her bf. If you plan on ignoring the advice given in your many threads, that a majority of time tell you exactly the opposite you tell us you are going to do anyway, at least air on the side of caution and consider the possibility she is indeed lying to you and using you as a pawn.
She doesn't want a singular relationship judging by her comments of letting you date other people. You seem to have oneitis for this chick however. This can end horribly when she decides that out of her plates that she is spinning she doesn't think your plate is good enough. Sounds like the girl is a Don Juan and you seem to still have a sort of AFC mindset or are at least regressing on a few items such as pedestal placing and oneitising this girl.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
where's that 4 days thing came from? you mistaken this thread for another thread, maybe?49au said:And she is almost incapable of being jealous, yet she can't stand when you don't contact her for 4 days?
I think that's coming from my (totally unrelated) thread.Fela Kuti said:where's that 4 days thing came from? you mistaken this thread for another thread, maybe?
That's bullcrap. Women are women. There are no special cases. You refuse to see the truth, despite our best efforts to enlighten you. You can either believe us and accept the help we offer, or rationalize this chick's garbage until you crash and burn. At the end of the day, 2+2 is 4.this chick is a special case. she's almost incapable of being jealous. she even allowed her past bf's to go out with any girls.